My name is Jenny and I have a husband and three children. We have been hit hard by the recession, and my husband, who used to make good money doing permanent cosmetics (he has been applying permanent cosmetics for 14 years, which is longer than anyone in our area ~ or state for that matter ~ and has an excellent reputation). However, people are not spending money on personal things during the recession, and we had decided that he should leave the tattoo shop he worked in to work out of a hair salon because women are less intimidated to go there, and we have no money for advertisement (and of course, at the tattoo shop he worked at for 9 years, they tell people he moved out of state). I then got laid off as a International Supply Chain Manager for a major sunglass company, because my job was to work with the suppliers and freight forwarders in China, but my company bought Polaroid, a European based company, who already had a worker on the dock in China, so it made sense to keep him there and get rid of my job because I had a 24 hour turn around in communication with them due to the time change. However, when I was laid off, I asked the Personnel Rep to write me a letter stating I was laid off and he put in the letter that I would not be returning (because my job was dissolved) and this letter was for unemployment compensation. But when I called the employment agency that got me the job there, whom I had always had an excellent reputation with, they said they had to call to see if I was on re-hire status. They were told "no". When I investigated, the Personnel Rep was someone else, my manager (the Vice President of Logistics)) was no longer there, and there was no exit review in my file or anything stating one way or another whether I was rehireable or not. There was absolutely no negative information in my file, and the only review in my file (the only one I received) was well above average, and had gotten me promoted form $10.00 per hour to $38,500 per year. I asked them who put the "no rehire" in the computer and she did not have an answer but refused to change it. Therefore, I could not go through the employment agency, and I'm not sure who to report this to.
My husband and I have both been looking for permanent work, but to no avail. I have a 7 year old daughter which my husband adopted, and his two girls, 14 and 16 have lived with us for four years. Their mother got addicted to crack and has been inconsistent to say the least, but has never paid anything in child support. Five days ago she was admitted to the hospital with a brain tumor and tomorrow they do the biopsy. I have told her that she can come and live with us after her release from the hospital because I want my daughters (her daughters, whom I consider mine) to know their mother as much as possible before she dies, so we will put all else aside and make sure she is not roaming the streets incoherent and getting hurt in her last days.
One more bad thing. I had my license suspended 4 years ago for too many speeding tickets in too short a period of time (no dui's or accidents), and then got it reinstated. Last year I received another ticket, and was supposed to take the driver's class for it. I had 90 days. The week before my time was up to take the test, our very close friend went into the hospital on the other side of the state and had to have his leg removed. We were there for him, but I had no access to internet and could not take the test (I know that is my own fault for waiting to the last minute). My license was suspended again. I finally got all court costs paid off, and only needed to go down to the DMV and pay $47.50 to get my license back, but we were in financial trouble, and I hadn't done it yet. I got pulled over twice for taillight issues, and when I went to court I got my license suspended for five years (habitual offender) without the option for a hardship license (one to get back and forth to work only until one year had passed). If I didn't work at all, we would have been evicted. Last week I got pulled over on brake light not working and arrested. I owe the courts $450.00 from court costs last time, have to obtain SR-22 insurance, and get my hardship license (I can get it in Oct.) before I go to trial. Otherwise, I will go to jail for 6 months and my family will no doubt be evicted. Not to mention I have no idea how I am going to obtain employment because everything I see on the internet is a scam. I am great with computers, but have bad luck in finding employment that would allow me not to drive.
I am about as depressed as I have ever been, and I don't know where to turn. Our bills are outrageous, and we need to improve our home for energy efficiency because our electric bill is constantly $300.00 because the people who owned the home before me expanded the house themselves, and the air conditioner is not big enough for the house and is as old as the house (1978), and our water is outrageous, too. We have tried conserving everywhere we can and it is not working. I don't know what to do or where to start and that is really not like me. I am usually a self-starter who accomplishes things the right way the first time and have never had a problem obtaining employment. Now I feel my hands are tied, my future is uncertain, and I have let my family down at every turn. If anyone has any suggestions, please take the time to write.
Thank you for listening,
Jenny